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See How Much God Trusts Us…

This from a real live campus minister

I don’t think I had ever considered God’s trust of us. What a wonderful picture of the grace and mercy of God for those he loves – he trusted us with Jesus. And he still does. As Jesus is incarnate in each of our lives God trusts us to live that same grace and mercy as we go about our daily activities. We are to literally be the hands, feet, voice, eyes, bodies and minds of Jesus in all we do. We are to allow God to indwell us, and as a result, indwell the world and touch the lives of those we meet each day.

Wow!

Whoa, Dude! Somebody, Like, Paid for This Study…

Saw this article in today’s Atlanta Journal-Constitution

A linguist from the University of Pittsburgh has published a scholarly paper deconstructing and deciphering the word “dude,” contending it is much more than a catchall for lazy, inarticulate surfers, skaters, slackers and teenagers.

An admitted dude-user during his college years, Scott Kiesling said the four-letter word has many uses: in greetings (“What’s up, dude?”); as an exclamation (“Whoa, Dude!”); commiseration (“Dude, I’m so sorry.”); to one-up someone (“That’s so lame, dude.”); as well as agreement, surprise and disgust (“Dude.”).

Kiesling says in the fall edition of American Speech that the word derives its power from something he calls cool solidarity � an effortless kinship that’s not too intimate.

Cool solidarity is especially important to young men who are under social pressure to be close with other young men, but not enough to be suspected as gay.

In other words: Close, dude, but not that close.

“It’s like man or buddy, there is often this male-male addressed term that says, ‘I’m your friend but not much more than your friend,'” said Kiesling, whose research focuses on language and masculinity.

Some Things I Just Don’t “Get”…

Ok, it’s been one of those days. Maybe one of those weeks. Months? Anyway, I’ve had a long drive time to think today (funeral service on one side of Atlanta, burial on the opposite side). Here’s today’s list – in no particular order – of some things I just don’t “get.”

Why God plays favorites. And how He decides.

Why a deeper commitment to prayer leads to more “stuff” happening.

College-student angst.

Tattoos. (It was the great philosopher, Ted Allen, before he was the food guy on Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, who wrote: “As you contemplate tattooing yourself or piercing body parts, try to remember a single T-shirt you bought at a rock concert five years ago that you still wear” and “The only good tattoo is a very, very small tattoo placed where no one can see it – which is to say, why get one?”)

How trying to help always seems to hurt. And how trying to fix it hurts more.

Screaming.

How nails seem to find your front left tire, when you’ve already got the spare on the right front, and the right rear has a leak and a bent rim.

How it’s always my fault.

How students think “this should be the greatest time of my life.” While neglecting to study. Or go to class.

Relatively attractive women with cigarettes. Who spit out of their car window.

Gifted, creative and multi-talented people who can seemingly do it all.

Gifted, creative and multi-talented people who can seemingly do it all, but who waste every opportunity. How to break that cycle.

Pessimistic church finance folks.

Denominational politics.

Not exactly deep and profound thoughts. But they are mine today. Of course, your mileage may vary…

Rev. BurningMan Jumps Into Another Fire…

Just saw the news that Randy Bohlender is going to a strategic post in a strategic place…Washington, DC. Sounds like a good move for him and his family. If you’ve got a couple of extra prayers you can send ’em up for Randy, Kelsey, and the cool boys, and for their new work and new home. And he thought it was “interesting” in the desert…wait ’til he gets a load of the Beltway…!

BTW, I’ve been meaning to post this picture of Mutt and Jeff…I mean, the aforementioned Mr. Bohlender and Revdude!

Where’s Emily Post When You Need Her?

If this is how Thanksgiving dinner goes, something tells me it’s probably not a Martha Stewart moment at ordinary meal times.

A man was charged with stabbing two relatives after they allegedly criticized his table manners during Thanksgiving dinner.

Police said the fight broke out Thursday when Gonzalo Ocasio, 49, and his 18-year-old son, Gonzalo Jr., reprimanded Frank Palacious for picking at the turkey with his fingers, instead of slicing off pieces with a knife.

And since it happened in polite-society Worcester, Massachusetts, I’ll forego the customary “Hey! Hold muh beer and watch this!” alert!

Another Redneck Surfaces in the Blogosphere…


It’s like they’re coming out of the woodwork or something!

Another of my “redneck pastor” buds is blogging! Tony McCollum is one of the most creative thinkers I know. He’s a Renaissance man…with many talents, skills, and gifts! Not only that, but he has the quickest wit and he makes me laugh ’til my side hurts and my eyes water like crazy! He’s also a pastor in a movie theater, and he has a heart for people. He always encourages me whenever I get to be around him. Check out Tony’s blog! Thanks, TMc, for all you do!

What If…?

Sometimes you just can’t beat a good country song to put things in perspective…

I went sky diving
I went Rocky Mountain climbing
I went 2.7 seconds on a bull named FuManchu
And I loved deeper and I spoke sweeter
And I gave forgiveness I’d been denying
And he said someday I hope you get the chance
To live like you were dying.

Like tomorrow was a gift and you got eternity to think about
What’d you do with it what did you do with it
What did I do with it
What would I do with it?