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Sunday Night Unwind, 03.11.12…

For some reason, my ‘go-to” Sunday Night Unwind soundtrack has been Hillsong lately. I’ve got iTunes cranked up, and all the Hillsong stuff I have is rocking along. Did I mention we need a chick worship leader?  🙂 Anyway, here’s what’s going on in my little insignificant corner of the universe…

  • Last week started out pretty good, but ended up being the gnat bite week from H-E-double-hockey-sticks.
  • From Thursday on, it seemed like one little thing after another happened. There was nothing major, but those little gnat bites get pretty annoying when they start adding up.
  • Broken glasses. Busted doors. Kitty eye infections. Impromptu encounters with Cherokee County’s finest. Nasty floors. Changed locks. You get the idea….
  • Top all that off with last night, when I got a decent amount of sleep, but woke up feeling as though I’d been running all night long. Is it possible to sleep without really resting?
  • Today at The Crest was pretty interesting.
  • We’ve been in a series called Jesus in the Present Tense, dealing with the great “I Am” statements of Jesus in John’s Gospel. Today, we took a break to promote our tribe’s annual Easter Offering for North American missions.
  • Had some video vignettes of folks who are planting churches throughout North America. My most interesting “hmmmm” moment came from this guy, who came from South Africa to the United States because of his burden for dying churches and lost people. In America? Wait…aren’t Americans supposed to be “the missionaries?”
  • We’re tenants now, in the property we used to own, and that – as you can imagine – is pretty awkward. And getting more so as the weeks go by. We need to get busy looking for a new place to call home. And pronto!
  • I used to believe the conventional wisdom that said if you pay for something yourself, you’re more likely to take better care of it than if someone gives it you you. Apparently our new landlords and erstwhile tenants didn’t get the memo. Aren’t Army guys supposed to be clean and neat? Don’t they learn to police the area, etc.? Isn’t there such a thing as KP anymore? And whatever happened to the famous “commitment to Christian excellence in education?” (Insert your own link here. It shouldn’t be too hard to find.) And why are there bricks and concrete blocks in the refrigerator? Just wondering out loud here…
  • For some reason, this line from National Lampoon’s Animal House comes to mind more often these days.
  • Oh, and how about that commitment to excellence in grammar, too?
  • Did I mention that the lovely and gracious Mrs. Just Charlie has Apple fever? I mean a bad case!
  • If you want to help ease that condition, one of these will do the trick. And one of these. Oh, and since it’s small, how about one of these, as well? 🙂
  • How do you go about making a large traditional worship space (think pews, etc.)  more intimate when it only contains  relatively few people? Our space will seat 175-200 and we have less than 50 currently. Just wondering…
  • I started reading Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr,Prophet, Spy by Eric Metaxas this evening.
  • I’ve been thinking about “hard things” for the past couple of days. And as much as I hate to admit it, I’ve failed at so much simply because I quit or backed off when the going got tough. It’s hard to do the right thing sometimes. It’s hard not to give up or give in. It’s hard to follow God’s lead when you’re discouraged and just going through the motions. It’s hard not to quit when it seems everything you try fails. It’s hard to keep going when it seems you’re on your own without a lot of support. It’s hard! Now at age 50-something, I’m wondering if it’s too late to strengthen those muscles.
  • Speaking of muscles, my commitment to exercise and health has been one of those areas. I’m getting back to it. As tempting as it is, you can’t live on what you did six years ago.
  • Same with reading and learning.
  • Same with meaningful spiritual habits.
  • All things being equal, however, God is still great and He is still good, and He’s not done with us yet!

Sorry for the pity party. Move along if you’re in the wrong place. If you’re where you’re supposed to be, an extra prayer or two would be appreciated.

A famous Jim Cymbala quote to bring a merciful end to tonight’s Unwind…

I despaired at the thought that my life might slip by without seeing God show himself mightily on our behalf.

Peace. Good night!

Testing from the CrackBerry Again…

We’re in the middle of a bunch of thunder and lightning, so I turned my desktop computer off. Here I am with my trusty Curve, seeing how it works with the old blog. This is just a test…nothing to see here…move along now…these are not the droids you’re looking for…:-)

Monday Night Unwind, 07.07.08…

Just about to call it quits after a pretty good day. Here’s what’s happened and happening…

  • Got a little Hillsong United playing on Pandora. Third Day’s King of Glory just wrapped up.  David Crowder’s Everything Glorious is on at this very minute. Two of my favorites, especially that Third Day song…it fires me up every time for some reason. Oh, now it’s Hillsong United’s For All Who Are to Come!
  • Did I mention we may have a chick leading some worship for us? And that she’ll be tons better than Darlene However-You-Pronounce-Her-Name at Hillsong?
  • Speaking of Hillsong, did you know that Perry Noble is speaking there later this year? Anderson meets Australia…oh, to be a fly on the wall! 🙂
  • David Foster twittered this great Lou Holtz quote: “The man who complains about the way the ball bounces is likely the one who dropped it.” Wow! And ouch!
  • Personal best in the bench press today.
  • But I couldn’t lift the TV that got fried a couple of weeks ago to take it to the shop! Pretty weak! (No, pretty stinkin’ bulky TV!)
  • Oh, anybody want to pony up for a nice new HDTV? Just wondering…
  • The Message is rocking my world these days. Again.
  • This last cup of Sumatra is super!
  • Writing thank you notes to the VBS team. Writing…you do that with a real pen and real note paper. Then you put real stamps on them. And put them in your real mailbox, so the real mail carrier can pick them up and they get delivered. In a couple of days. And they still seem to have that little extra something in these days of Twitter and email and text messages. Just a thought…your mileage may vary.
  • Feeling real grateful tonight for my buds who are making a impact for the sake of the Kingdom. You guys know who you are, and you know I’m pulling and praying for you! Go get ’em, Tiger!

That’s about it…4 am comes real early in the morning! See y’all later!

Notes from the Weekend Just Past…

One of those busy-but-pretty-good weekends went something like this (including today)…

  • Didn’t preach yesterday morning. Had these guys in for their pitch. It was actually pretty good. Heard some interesting stats, a couple of items that made me go “hmmmm!” and one really great, challenging story that will certainly surface somewhere else along the way.
  • “The Boy” stopped by long enough to eat lunch. Always great to see him!
  • Got back to serious working out at the Y. Read some great, challenging articles at the wellness center desk.
  • Caught the last three-quarters or so of G.I. Jane on TV. Love that great, challenging quote from Master Chief Urgayle: “There are no bad crews, only bad leaders!” Hmmm….
  • Touched base with one of my heroes, the one and only Gary Lamb. He doesn’t know it, but he usually challenges and encourages me almost every time I talk to him!
  • Started a little series in our evening service. We’re unabashedly talking about some other churches. And we’re calling them by name. Really picking them apart and all that jazz. Maybe you’ve heard of them. Going to be good….
  • Read Shackleton’s Way, and was challenged and encouraged by his leadership in the middle of difficult and seemingly hopeless times of crisis. Just found a website….
  • Re-discovered Tennyson and Browning, via the book about Shackleton.
  • Made me want to watch Dead Poets Society.
  • Set personal bests in the bench press today! Woo hoo!

Friday Night Unwind, 01.18.08…

Still got The Derailers on my mind, in my ears, and out my speakers! What else is in there, you ask? Well, you didn’t ask, but since I told the woman from the paper today that the main thing I like about blogging is that I don’t have to get anybody else’s permission to write what I think, I can put it down here if I want to! So there!

Gnat Bites…

Random little things that shouldn’t be bugging me today, but they are…

  • Six-week sabbaticals
  • Pastors as Rasputin or Charles Manson
  • Paranoid leaders
  • Cat urine
  • Delays
  • Way too-long and tangled “to-do” lists, with no clear starting point
  • Little flaws that add up to huge character defects

Just a Little Sin…

It was just a little sin, a little insignificant lie. One told out of embarrassment and frustration. Just two little words…

Wrong number.

Actually, it was little insignificant lie #2. The first came just a few minutes before…

It’s already taken care of.

Funny thing about those little insignificant sins: They are huge blocks in one’s spirit, in one’s ability to focus on and hear from God.