Got a little Jars of Clay action going tonight, since we ended up using their version of “Lonely People” in our service this morning. Thanks, Royal, for the tip. And thanks to all the rest of you who made suggestions for “loneliness songs.”
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Hey, loyal readers (all two of you!)! Need a little more help…
We’re right in the middle of a series of messages called “Everybody Hurts,” talking about dealing with life’s pains, disappointments, etc. It’s just worked out that we’ve had some good success tying in some music to each message so far…
- Everybody Hurts by R.E.M. (overall theme, natch!)
- Better Days by The Goo Goo Dolls (when we talked about Job), and…
- Home by Daughtry (last week, the Prodigal Son)
This week, we’re talking about loneliness…any good ideas?
Well, one whirlwind trip to south Georgia and back, and “The Boy” has a place! Thanks for your prayers, the leads, and the info….
“The Boy” is scheduled to start school at Georgia Southern University August 13, and it looks like campus housing is slammed!
If any of you loyal readers (all two of you!) know of renters, or roommate-hunters in Statesboro, hit me up ASAP! Thanks!
Oh, and if you’ve got a few extra prayers for “The Boy” you can send them up, too!
31 days. A mere month, but I just don’t think I have the willpower this year for some reason.
See, Labor Day is the official beginning of Christmas Music for me. And I really have to force myself to wait that long, for I dearly love Christmas music! Beginning on Labor Day, that’s virtually all I listen to.
There are signs this year that I’m not going to be able to hold out till then. Pray for me. Pray for the lovely and gracious “Mrs. Just Charlie’s” sanity.
Just 31 days…I can do this…I know I can do this…

Our faithful old kitty cat, Patches, died some time late in the night. That’s him in a picture that’s the background for my cell phone. it perfectly illustrates for me his curious and inquisitive nature.
We got Patches when “The Boy” was in the second grade. “The Boy” is 21 now.
I was on the way to pick up the lovely and gracious “Mrs. Just Charlie” and “The Boy” from school one afternoon, and I saw a sign advertising “free kittens” at a house on the way. So I stopped, and the runt of the litter was the only one left. I had an empty copier-toner carton in the car, and that box was Patches’s first home. I’ll never forget the look of delight in a second-grader’s eyes, as he got in the car at school, and saw that little black-and-white furball in the box. We went to McDonald’s, where I proceeded to feed Patches with a carton of milk and a straw.
“The Boy” named him “Patches” because of that black patch over one eye. He moved with us ten years ago, and watching him learn to negotiate stairs was a real treat. He’s been really lethargic for a while, and all summer long, we just kind of felt that the end was near. Well, some time in the night, he negotiated those stairs for the last time, and we found him in our dining room.
“The Boy” cried, the lovely and gracious “Mrs. Just Charlie” cried, and there may have been a little dust in my own eyes as well.
No more kitty cat alarm clocks at 4:30 a.m. No more funny and delightful pictures. No more chasing stuff around. No more playing with the strangest things – like the yellow string out of a jacket or those rings from the top of a gallon of milk. No more head bumps in the night. No more wrapping around our heads, purring in the bed.
He was a good ol’ kitty cat…and we miss him already.
My buddy Tony McCollum rocks! Go check out the great stuff that Tony’s leading at Mill Cree…uh, FUSION Church!
Tony’s quote from a text message…
We changed the name and raised some money. Can’t beat that! 🙂
Nope, Tony, you can’t beat that! And you can’t beat good friends! Thanks!
I’m tired, but I can’t go to sleep…for the second night in a row!
Last night (this morning), I hit the sack around 12:15 a.m. I had just dozed off when the phone rang. It was the alarm company alerting me to an “incident” at our church. The conversation went something like this…
- Me: Hello?
- Alarm Guy: Rev. Pharis? This is North Fulton Alarm, we’re reporting an incident at Stonecrest Baptist Church on Arnold Mill Road. Should I dispatch the police?
- Me: Sure, and I’ll be over there in a few minutes.
- Alarm Guy: How long will it be before you get there?
- Me: Oh, 5 or 10 minutes, I suppose.
- Alarm Guy: Will it be 5 or will it be 10? I’ll report you’ll arrive in 7 minutes. What will you be driving so I can tell the officer?
- Me: A red 1999 F-150 pickup.
Of course, when Cherokee County’s Finest arrived, we scoped out the place and found nothing out of the ordinary. I piddled around a bit and came back home. Here’s where the sleepless night took a turn for the weird…
I got back in the bed, and had just gotten to sleep again, around 2:30 a.m. The phone rang again. And this is what ensued…
- Me: Hello?
- Caller: Rev. Pharis? This is the alarm company, reporting an incident at First Baptist Church of Chattahoochee.
- Me: Huh?!?!? What did you say? It’s been over four years since I was the pastor at Chattahoochee. I think you probably need to call somebody else!
Well, at that point, the sleep was gone, so I just got up. I paid for it all day today, and it looks like I’ll be up again tonight. Call me if you’re up and can’t sleep. Unless you’re employed by the alarm company from four years ago…then don’t bother…
What happens when your mind races and goes nowhere…
- Banks, country clubs, gay porn? Yeah…change it!
- I’m blessed beyond measure to get to hang with some of the people I get to hang with. Thanks, guys!
- Little kids. Swimming lessons. Too funny!
- Don’t ask!

