A digital commonplace for a Regular Guy called Charlie Pharis

Author: Charlie Pharis (page 13 of 165)

Recuperating…

BACK HOME AGAIN, Brig. General Robert C. Oliver, Chief of Staff of the 13th Air Force, welcomes Lt. Stanley J. Hillock that was rescued from a remote site where his aircraft crashed, April 1947, Luzon, Philippines John Tewell via Compfight

Well, I can mark “being admitted into the hospital” and “surgery” off my bucket list.

This week, for the first time in 52+ years of hanging around this planet I did both. Spent five days there. Admitted through the ER Monday for pancreatitis. Scope procedure, MRI, and other fun party games Tuesday. Gall bladder removal Thursday. Home Friday afternoon. Whew!

Guy Kawasaki Knows…

Image via http://netminds.com/blog/guy-kawasaki-on-self-publishing-giving-credit-and-cheating

I followed Guy Kawasaki’s Twitter feed yesterday as he gave some practical tips for getting your writing done and getting your writing published. He knows a thing or two about both aspects.

As both of you loyal readers of this space have noticed (repeatedly, I’m afraid!) I always say I want to write. Yet, as you’ve also undoubtedly noticed, not much happens in that direction.

Here are Guy’s tips (with my related thoughts):

  • “If you really want to learn how/why to write, read If You Want to Write by Brenda Ueland.” I first discovered this little book when I read Garr Reynolds’s PresentationZen. I’ve given away about five copies to friends and colleagues who wanted to write. Of course, I told them this was a great book, blah, blah, blah, and all the time, I needed to do what she says. It’s old, and it seems a bit dated, but it’s encouraging and inspiring.
  • “Write every day. No matter what’s going wrong, how busy, whatever. Get into the habit.” Almost every artist and creator I know is adamant about the habitual nature of their craft. This has been the biggest obstacle for me in trying to write.
  • “Use Word. Sure there are better, cheaper, more elegant, whatever but Word is the standard for everyone. Go with the flow.” I like my Moleskine, Mirado Black Warriors, and Pilot G-2s. But I wonder if that’s just because of the hype about the Moleskine’s illustrious reputation as the tool for creatives. I also know that I don’t type really well. On the other hand, my handwriting falls apart within a couple of lines, to the point that it’s totally illegible. My hero, Michael Hyatt, is not a fan of Word, and prefers other more elegant, less cumbersome tools. I think Guy may be onto something, though. My students use Word. It’s readily available wherever I am, and if ever the day comes that I actually get published, I’ll have to get it into a Word document anyway. (Please note I am writing this post in the WordPress editor).
  • “Start building your social media platform the day you start writing, not after you’re finished.” Guy, Michael Hyatt, Jeff Goins, and others are pretty big on building your platform to promote your writing and creating. I get that. I know if you want to be noticed, you have to increase your exposure to those who might benefit from your art or your service or your product. This might be my biggest obstacle, next to the simple act of sitting down every day and doing the work. It sounds to me a lot like blatant self-promotion. In reality, there is a fine line between confident exposure and brash egotism. I’m afraid of trampling that line.
  • “Hire a copyeditor. The odds that you’re a good writer and copyeditor is 0.” I don’t know enough about the ins and outs of copy editing, although it sounds like fascinating work. I guess that’s the grammar Nazi in me! Anyway, if Guy Kawasaki says you need a copy editor, then you – and I – need a copy editor. Period.
  • “Hire a cover designer. The odds that you’re a good writer and designer is 0.” See copy editor above.
  • “Test your ebook on every platform. Assuming that deployment works on every platform is an illusion.” I know this to be true. I have read books on my Kindle Touch, and the same ones on the Kindle app for PC and the iPad. The formatting is often inconsistent. This is distracting. The fact that Guy couches this tip in terms of “assuming” warms my heart. After all, I tell my students all the time that “assume” is one of my favorite words because when you assume, you make one out of U and ME. Let the reader understand.
  • “If you want to simplify your life, just sell your ebook through Amazon Kindle. It’s 75% of the action alone.” Again, I plead ignorance of how publishing works. It only makes sense that Kindle has the lion’s share of the ebook market.
  • “Think like NPR: provide such great social media content/curation that people tolerate the telethon. In other words, provide value to earn the right to promote your stuff.” This goes along with the part about building your platform. NPR is annoying, but they are annoying mainly once or twice a year. The rest of the time, they provide programming that attracts passionate followers. Those passionate followers gladly tolerate, and even participate in the fund-raising. My current social media involvement is a far cry from this ideal. I’m stuck in the early days of blogging, when you blogged to tell folks about your life and times. I can see where social media has evolved; I just haven’t successfully navigated the current. On the other hand, I consider myself a curator of sorts, so this might be easier to overcome than I imagine.
  • “Ignore the naysayers. Odds are that you haven’t written a good book, but if you listen to naysayers, you won’t know for sure.” This great point reminds me of the old proverb: “Those who say it cannot be done should not interrupt the one who is doing it.”  Vincent van Gogh reportedly said the artist must silence the voices that say you can’t. Sometimes those voices are the voices of family, friends, and critics. But often, those voices are screaming from the inside of our own heads. Either way, you won’t know if you can do it, or how good it is until you do it.

Obviously, Guy Kawasaki knows what he’s talking about. My challenge – and yours – is to glean what we can, get busy finding our own voice, and let it be heard.

Write What You Know…

I Thought That The World Had Lost Its Sway, And Then I Fell in Love With You

Thomas Hawk via Compfight

Mark Twain reportedly said, “Write what you know.”

Others have echoed that sentiment, and others have dismissed it.

My favorite quote on the subject came from an interview with Georgia physician-author, Ferrol Sams, who repeated his college writing professor’s adage: “Don’t write a story about the streets of Paris if you’ve never been out of Valdosta.”

Writers, it is said, are defined by one thing: whether they write. I want to write, always have.

Started a few times, got discouraged or afraid of how others would respond, quit.

Had a pity party. Claimed I really wanted to write, but just didn’t have anything to write about that anyone else would want to read. Rationalized that I don’t know enough about anything to write coherently.

Whined. In blog posts. Promised to do better.

Encouraged others to write. Acted like I knew how to encourage others to write.And on and on.

Finally, I have come to a couple of conclusions about writing.

I can write what I know/ Or I can learn something else and write about it.

It doesn’t really matter if anyone else wants to read it. At first. If I keep on, they will want to read it eventually.

Practice may not make perfect, but if I don’t write, one thing’s for sure: I won’t be a writer.

So, I’ve never been to Paris. And the streets of Valdosta would probably seem as unfamiliar anyway. So here’s to learning and observing and gathering and sharing what I know.

Maybe you’ll come along…

Sunday Night Unwind, 04.07.2013…

girls_rule_back

Hi dee ho, loyal readers! All two of you! Where have you been? Oh, wait…

This is the moment you’ve been waiting for all weekend: the possibility of a Sunday Night Unwind! Here goes…

  • We started a brand-new series at The Crest today. The series is called Girls Rule! and we’re looking at some of the women in the Bible who made a real difference!
  • Today’s episode was all about Rahab. You know…the squeaky-clean, well-connected, nice little socialite from Jericho? The fact of the matter is, Rahab had a past. Yet, as I repeated this morning, her past was no match for the grace of God!
  • I’m amazed by how many well-meaning people have a problem with people with a past. Unfortunately, pasts are like…navels: everybody has one! (I cleaned that one up for you!)
  • I’ve heard all kinds of theories about Rahab this week.
  • My favorite? She wasn’t really a prostitute. She was a flax dealer. And a successful one. That’s why the men in the area lied and made up the story about prostitution. They were jealous of her success! Really?!?!?
  • The men of the day probably lied about Rahab, all right. But the flax dealer story was obviously the cover-up!
  • “Where was I? Oh…uh…I was just checking out the latest in flax stalks. Yeah, that’s the ticket!”
  • You really do damage to the text – and your credibility – if you insist on sanitizing Rahab’s story and her profession. She was a hooker!
  • But she became a hero through God’s grace which led her to faith. Pretty amazing story, actually!
  • Since this post is already dragging a bit, suffice it to say this notorious shady woman was instrumental in saving God’s people, achieving God’s purpose, and making way for Jesus! Pretty good for a woman of ill repute, huh?
  • BTW, the graphic for the series is supposed to channel a shopping bag, thank you very much! Sorry…
  • BTW #2: You get some interesting results when you search for Rahab graphics. Just sayin’…
  • I’m mulling over a series of church leadership posts based on 1 Peter 5:1-11.
  • This is the first week since January I don’t have papers to grade and class prep.
  • I plan on catching up on some reading, doing a little writing, checking some items off the honey-do list, and fulfilling my voluntary patriotic contribution.
  • I’ve been thinking about credibility and communication lately.

Finally, let me leave you with this simple but powerful quote from the late, great Peter Drucker: “There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all.”

Thanks, and to all a good night!

Seems Like a Good Time to Work on That List…

(Image via: http://www.flickr.com/photos/sparkypics/1411327389/)

(Image via: http://www.flickr.com/photos/sparkypics/1411327389/)

The Bucket List, I mean.

In light of this morning’s random thoughts, all day long I’ve been thinking about what would go on that list. Fact is, I’ve thought about it along and along, but never really thought about it.

So far today, that list includes trains, baseball, and a symphony orchestra.

I’ll let you know how it turns out…

Some Thoughts That Spilled Out of My Mind…

(Image via flickr.com/Fricke_K)

(Image via flickr.com/Fricke_K)

Just some Saturday randomness…

  • I love finding new stuff! Call it serendipity. New songs, new books, new ideas, new friends…all make the start of a new day worthwhile!
  • By all accounts, I should be a liberal. I like so many people who claim to be. I love hanging out with “creative” folks, who of course, by definition, have to be liberals. 🙂
  • Except I’m rather fond of the ideas of liberty, freedom, order, and personal responsibility. Which seem to me to be the kinds of ideals creative folks ought to espouse. I’m just thinking out loud here…your mileage may vary.
  • The difference between liberals and conservatives, at least as I see it, is that conservatives think liberals are wrong, not stupid.
  • If I base whether or not to include people on my social media lists on what I think they’ll think about what I tweet or post, then maybe I shouldn’t include them. Or maybe I should rethink what I post or tweet.
  • More and more, I think I may have blown it when I moved away from the city. I didn’t appreciate living in the city when I actually lived there. And once upon a time, when I had the chance to immerse myself in the city, I opted for the “safety” of the suburbs.
  • On a related note, I’ve never been to the great cities of our country. I need to go to Washington, D.C. and New York City some time before I leave this planet for good.
  • In case it’s a shocker to you, I’m 52 years old, and I’ve lived a pretty sheltered life. I’ve never been to Washington, D.C. or New York City or Boston. I’ve never seen the Pacific Ocean or the Grand Canyon. I’ve also never been on a cruise or traveled outside the United States.
  • I’ve read a lot. And I just may the Barney Fife of my generation, knowing just enough about a lot of things to be dangerous. And completely useless. 🙂

If I Were a(n) ____________…

thinking?

vassilis galopoulos via Compfight

“If I were a(n) ____________, what would I be doing today?”

Many of us feel like we’re stuck in our jobs. What we’re doing right now is not paying the bills. Or it’s not fulfilling. Or it’s not fun anymore. Or it’s boring. Or it’s not making a difference. Or whatever.

Many of us think about changing jobs, about quitting our humdrum career and doing what we were made to do.

But most of us won’t. Why? Because we have fantasies about what that “dream job” would be, but we lack direction or courage or confidence or skill or whatever the excuse du jour.

I’ve been thinking about that lately, and I keep coming back to what a lot of others have said…

The first step to becoming a __________ is to think of yourself as a ____________.

Let’s take that a step further.

If I were a ___________, today I would need to be ______________.

How do you fill in those blanks?

If I were a pastor, today I would be preparing for Sunday’s message. I would be studying the Scriptures, praying over the truths and insights. I would be crafting the message so that I could most effectively communicate the Word to my congregation. I would be finishing up preparation for the rest of the worship service. I would be calling a few people to check on them. I would be planning the next few weeks and months and looking at ways to fulfill the tasks of the church. I would be devising strategies for increasing the church’s impact in the community and the world. I would have a full agenda. I would be busy.

If I were, say, a writer, today I would be writing. I’d be sitting at my computer or in front of my typewriter. I would have my pencil and notebook. I would be putting fingers to keys or point to paper. I would be thinking of the right words to say what’s on my mind. I would be agonizing over grammar and syntax and spelling. I would be busy.

Let’s say I were, I don’t know…a designer. I’d be upping the level of my creative skills so that I could take my designs to another level. If I were a salesman, I’d be calling on customers and familiarizing myself with my products so I could match the two in effective ways. Suppose I were a teacher. I would be helping my students grasp some concept. I would be grading their work and providing feedback to help them improve.

And so on.

The point is that if I want to be a(n) ______________, I need to start doing the things that ___________s do.

I need to stop making the excuses and get busy. I might not become the next great ___________, but I will likely be closer to it that way than if I sit here in a subjunctive mood.

What do you want to be? What would you be doing right now?

Why not do it?